Great thoughts, Nolgroth, Lord Laiden, Kaspar Hauser, and Iuz. I think you gentle have a pretty good handle on what's happening in the country today. Probably a better handle than most of the people who are actually making the decisions on the country today, which is a scary thought.
I've been trying to figure out how it got to be this bad. When did we shift to this paradigm of "I'd rather do nothing at all, or something actively destructive, than work with the other side"? It seems to me it didn't used to be this way.
To my mind, it began in earnest when House Republicans decided to press forward with an impeachment of President Clinton that they knew they had no chance of winning. This irritated Democrats, of course, and along with the feeling they'd been cheated out of the 2000 election, energized the Party to oppose GWB whenever possible. The feeling they'd been conned into supporting invasions of Iraq and Afghanistan certainly didn't help. This is where the inter-Party name-calling really began to intensify, I think.
Then President Obama came along, campaigning on "Change" and "Hope", and carrying the implicit message that the Republican Party were warmongering profiteers that no linger cared about the common people. He promised at his inauguration to unite the country again, but followed up with a raft of policy decisions that further alienated anyone who didn't already agree with him. The Tea Party midterm victories in 2010 fouther cemented the divide between the Left and the Right, and Republican obstructionism became the norm. Obama turned to his phone and his pen, leaving some to feel that he no linger had any interest in healing the country, but only in protecting his agenda and his legacy.
Sadly, all of this left us so screwed up that we, as a nation, decided it was a good idea to elect someone like Donald Trump as President--helped, no doubt, by the perception that the only other viable option was to elect someone like Hillary Clinton. And there we have it: an election where everyone loses.
That's how I feel about it, anaway. It's possible that I'm completely off base here. I'm an actual scientist, not a political scientist.
In any case, I'm not sure how we fix it. But fix it we must--of that I am absolutely certain.